I read a post on forum. It is written by a guy having a headache for how to say good bye to his girlfriend. The summary of his post: (Assuming he is honest and fair)
1) He's been with the girl for 8 years and he has been a good bf throughout the years; he is loyal to the girl, and always try to be considerate
2) They start to think about getting married. Well, it is because they have been together for so long. There should be an epilogue anyway
3) The boy does not want to marry her
4) He thinks that there is communication problem between them. According to the guy, the girl cannot relieve him from pressure when he is unhappy or frustrated. She will be pissed if he does not want to talk about his problems. She will also blame him as she has already shown her concerns yet he did not react appropriately. Eventually the guy has to comfort his gf instead. The guy says he needs someone for company and support him when he is low, apparently the girl fails to do that. In spite of love, there are some more to think about
5) He requests to end the relationship. The girl rejects that and threaten to commit suicide
Many people left comments to his post. They are mainly divided into two groups: girls who blame him for being selfish and not considerate, and have wasted 8 years of the girl; guys who say that he should end the relationship earlier. The story seems so familar to myself; yea I was the girl 2 years ago. (The only difference is I have never wanted to commit suicide)
It reminded me everything that I brought to you in the past; I never knew that I've done so wrong. You must have suffered so much and one day you could endure it no more. There is no room for me to remedy the mistakes I've made. I hope you live happily whereever you are, and more importantly, may you find your beloved soon
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