不得不承認自己已經脫節了
今天晚上我和母親大人到 happy together吃火鍋，鄰座是三位年約14-5歲的女生
誰知道就上演了一幕竊聽風雲 (即"聽到一d唔應該聽既野")
我不是故意留意她們講甚麼，只是坐旁邊，她們的聲浪又超過100分貝
實在很難避免fully receive她們的談話內容
現在的中學生的交談時有點像獎門人的馬拉松環節
即講完一句話後面的人要用最後一個字接下去，但整句話加起來往往是沒有意思的
以下內容只有省略，並無虛假。成份絕對無添加
"喂，呢d冰唔溝得埋一齊架(注:指兩種不同的飲料)。溝埋會變mix架，嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻"
"mix啊，甘即係baby甘 (注:指某混血靚模)嘻嘻嘻"
"即係變左麻瓜!(注:某兒童魔法小說中的非純種巫師)會比佛地魔追殺架，嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻"
2分鐘後，<拿起手機自拍>
"well，do you know that 我地.....(忘了她講甚麼、只記得講完英文後面是一連串中文)"
還好老媽子有一隻耳朵是聾的，才能悠閒地吃完那個日式火鍋
難為我短時間內被強迫接收大量9唔搭8的潮語
我想，互聯網真的徹底改變了傳統的communication mode
現在的年輕人有誰家中沒有電腦？
10歲的小朋友都會用fb、twitter
搞不好他們可能還同時主持幾個網上討論區哩
只是，大家都習慣了以這種方法發放&接收訊息
現實生活中反而不知道怎樣和"真人"溝通
你可能也會注意到，地鐵裡巴士裡
那些後生仔打電話給朋友時東一句西一句
講話沒頭沒腦的
完全沒有組織能力可言
情況真讓人擔心
大慨以後年輕人約會時會帶著notebook
在starbucks的兩端分開喝咖啡，然後
繼續在fb上談情
Is it the result really not important at all?
A friend of mine was dating a guy and they had special feelings for each other. They hanged out together, having sweet talks, and they have slept for a few times too
The guy told my friend that he was not ready for a new relationship yet (he just broke up with his ex for some weeks). They were happy being together and the girl thought it was just a matter of time that they were to become lovers. So she was waiting for that day to come
They used to date every weekend. All of a sudden, something seemed to be happened. The guy did not contact the girl for a couple of weeks. Not even a message or email. He did not even say hi to her even when they met in the company. The girl has been so worried and did not know wat was going on. However she tried to be patient and that she was there to wait and support him
Eventually when the guy came up again. He told her that he met a girl when he was travelling. And they have become lovers now
The girl has had her heart broken. She has been thinking it over again and again. Still she did not know wat has gone wrong
The guy told her: I was very happy being with u. It is the process that is the most important. It is not the result
Sometimes I have got no word to comfort her. Can I say to her: u've been so happy with him before. That's enough for both of u
Yea I could probably say these things. Blah blah blah. Its just I'm saying things that I am unsure about
Is that the difference between boys and girls?
Is that the result really not important at all?
Was it wrong to have expectation for love? If so, why do we have to have dreams?
Another 100,000 questions came up with my mind again....
The guy told my friend that he was not ready for a new relationship yet (he just broke up with his ex for some weeks). They were happy being together and the girl thought it was just a matter of time that they were to become lovers. So she was waiting for that day to come
They used to date every weekend. All of a sudden, something seemed to be happened. The guy did not contact the girl for a couple of weeks. Not even a message or email. He did not even say hi to her even when they met in the company. The girl has been so worried and did not know wat was going on. However she tried to be patient and that she was there to wait and support him
Eventually when the guy came up again. He told her that he met a girl when he was travelling. And they have become lovers now
The girl has had her heart broken. She has been thinking it over again and again. Still she did not know wat has gone wrong
The guy told her: I was very happy being with u. It is the process that is the most important. It is not the result
Sometimes I have got no word to comfort her. Can I say to her: u've been so happy with him before. That's enough for both of u
Yea I could probably say these things. Blah blah blah. Its just I'm saying things that I am unsure about
Is that the difference between boys and girls?
Is that the result really not important at all?
Was it wrong to have expectation for love? If so, why do we have to have dreams?
Another 100,000 questions came up with my mind again....
A gift for myself
Well, it might sound stupid saying so, however, it is time for me to learn how to be a young people again
For some reasons, I have always been too thoughtful
I guess it was to cope with the environment, so that I urged myself to grow up
When people complimented my maturity, I thought to myself: yea this is my style, I should bring it to my life
Somehow, I have lost the passion of a teenager and I just did not realize
Hey there, I'm not sure if u'll read this message. I hope that u'll be there to help me
Although I dunno how long it will take, I'm sure u'll meet a better & cheerful eva. I promise :)
人浮於事 (下)
畢業前大家曾經對前景充滿盼望
幾年後，當我們都打過幾份工，在幾個行業做過不同崗位後
那份熱誠已被燃燒殆盡
當人必需為生活而工作時, 就變得容易妥協
即使看到不合理的人和事，也不會再強出頭，以免做了英雄卻掉了工作
人事變遷，公司改組，甚至是經濟環境的改變
把我們自理想中拉了出來
不得不承認的是，社會上有太多我們這種年輕人
有些可能家境更好，學歷更高，又或者更加有衝勁
然而在職場上競技，除了靠實力外，更講求的是際遇和一點運氣
終於，年復一年，現實磨滅了鬥志
大家都變成芸芸眾生中的一員
我相信社會上有許多成功人士十分享受工作所帶來的滿足感
然而，有更多的人是在為口奔馳
眼看多少人到了40歲還是渾渾噩噩，不知道自己想要追求甚麼
他們當中
有幾多人能夠講出自己的career goal?
幾年後，當我們都打過幾份工，在幾個行業做過不同崗位後
那份熱誠已被燃燒殆盡
當人必需為生活而工作時, 就變得容易妥協
即使看到不合理的人和事，也不會再強出頭，以免做了英雄卻掉了工作
人事變遷，公司改組，甚至是經濟環境的改變
把我們自理想中拉了出來
不得不承認的是，社會上有太多我們這種年輕人
有些可能家境更好，學歷更高，又或者更加有衝勁
然而在職場上競技，除了靠實力外，更講求的是際遇和一點運氣
終於，年復一年，現實磨滅了鬥志
大家都變成芸芸眾生中的一員
我相信社會上有許多成功人士十分享受工作所帶來的滿足感
然而，有更多的人是在為口奔馳
眼看多少人到了40歲還是渾渾噩噩，不知道自己想要追求甚麼
他們當中
有幾多人能夠講出自己的career goal?
人浮於事 (上)
前天跟一個闊別多年的友人晚飯.
寒暄一番後, 大家講到彼此的近況. 當提到工作上的際遇時, 都不由自主的笑說自己已經"化"了
還記得我們在中學念書時都是"熱血青年"
常常想像畢業後會有一番怎樣的作為
十年後的今天再重聚, 只感到大家都比以前"實在"了
實在的意思是, 大家不再對工作存有幻想
以前我們認為畢業後一定要加入心儀的公司, 做自己喜歡的工作
一邊又想像自己會怎樣為工作出力, 為公司注入生氣和帶來"改變"
十年後的今天我們發現一直在改變的, 其實是自己
寒暄一番後, 大家講到彼此的近況. 當提到工作上的際遇時, 都不由自主的笑說自己已經"化"了
還記得我們在中學念書時都是"熱血青年"
常常想像畢業後會有一番怎樣的作為
十年後的今天再重聚, 只感到大家都比以前"實在"了
實在的意思是, 大家不再對工作存有幻想
以前我們認為畢業後一定要加入心儀的公司, 做自己喜歡的工作
一邊又想像自己會怎樣為工作出力, 為公司注入生氣和帶來"改變"
十年後的今天我們發現一直在改變的, 其實是自己
