How important is marriage to a woman?
Something happened in the office yesterday bothered me so much......... Actually its just some stupid thing, however that got me thinking, does marriage really matter to women?
I mean yes, all of us need company, especially girls are sentitmental animals. We need love, caring, compliments, commitments.... but when it comes to the marriage, everything seems to be different: a divorced woman can be a shame sometimes and it can bring her alot of problems in real life.
The girl in my office, she is quiet and polite. I don't really know her but guess she won't attack other ppl or bad mouthing like other bitches (yes, I am talking abt U). According to the chinese tradtition, married ppl should give red pocket money to those who are not married. And yesterday, she was forced to give out red pockets. Those asses kept harassing her for tiny money. They kept saying: u r married! U should give us the red pockets!
Well, why the f**K should I mention if I am married? I mean, it doesn't really matter if a girl is married or not, we r in fact WORKING. We r not making friends here or trying to form a bond with others. If this is the case, why should I tell other ppl my relationship status?
It is really sad that divorced women r disreputable in chinese communities (yes, can u imagine that? its 2011 and its still so stubborn here). Ppl usually think if a girl is divorced, there should be something wrong with her. And for men... divorce does very little damage to them. Divorced men r still attractive and funny. Ppl dun really care if they had 12 ex-wife. If a man had many ex-lovers, his friends would be so envy of him and said he did a great job getting so many chicks.
How unfair. Women r always the one to be blamed in relationships. We r expected to do the household work and take care of the children, and today we should also contribute (which means make monies) for the family too... blah blah blah, why should we take so much responsibility and eventually we still got blamed for everything?
Yea I may be too negative again, however, it got me thinking that what actually do we seek in love? Is marriage just about marrying yr beloved? I truly doubt it.
大概是之前被愚弄過，讓我在感情路上走得猶豫不決
