I discussed this topics with several friends; most of them cheated on their spouses/ girlfriends
A friend told me that he dated other girl when he was in a relationship. (he refused to tell whether they had sex. The answer was just obvious)
He declared that he did not mean to cheat
he loved his girl so deeply however, it just happened
Another guy was cheated on before and has lost faith in love
it hurt still even when he has in a new relationship
He thus relieved the pain by having sex with different women
(once again he lost his love, the girl found him cheating and left him
yet it is another story)
To be honest, to me it doesn't really matter why men cheat (well, women cheat too)
There is always a reason
What puzzles me is, if my guy cheats
should I pretend ignorant
and keep this in the dark?
It sounds absurd
but sometimes the truth could cause great suffering
Perhaps its not bad when we deceive ourselves
it just makes life easier
